Here’s the key. Every single girl you get with should become social proof for you from now on.

Doesn’t matter if it is a One Night Stand or a short term Fuck Buddy.

How? Honesty. I rarely have One Night Stands because I usually get with girls I want to nail again. Here’s how to turn these girls into major social proof:

1) Use a cocky /funny approach and build up.

Then when they start getting close to you with major kino and interest and rapport and you know it’s on, smile and say something like

“You better run away from me, (Her Name). I will only break your heart. (smile, wink) You need a nice guy who will buy you flowers and dinners and stuff. Like that guy there (point to some random chump). If you get together
with me, all I can promise you is hours of exquisite pleasure. You need more than that.”

Say the above stuff with a smile and a wink. Alessandro calls it the face you use when you want her to put in more soup – LOL. When you point out another guy and pretend to qualify him and say he is “better” for her than you, you immediately cement your status in her mind. There is no fucking way she would leave you now to be with that guy (or any other guy). It is kind of like a take away – except you don’t leave. Very powerful.

2) Maintain this theme throughout your evening with her. She will be challenged and intrigued. and
she now knows that all she is getting from you is a very short time. She can choose to leave at this
point, but they rarely do.

3) At some point, assure her that you don’t kiss and tell. Softens the ASD shield and shows her more
than anything else that you WILL respect her in the morning.

4) When you do get down to business with her, make sure she feels special. Romance her, whisper sweet nothings in her ear, smell her skin, take your time, revel in her beauty, let her know she is fucking exquisite. And do her right. In other words, she should feel like a queen and that you absolutely adore her. Every one says don’t compliment and say chump stuff, but if you already got your
dick in her, you better start talking.

5) Every time you see her after this point – whether in public or if she comes to your place for a repeat performance or whatever – treat her like she is the only woman in the world. In public, put your arm around her, kiss her, compliment her, call her Sweetie, adore her. But don’t do this before you have fucked her, or if you want a Long Term Relationships. Do this only with the ones you want to turn into social proof and/or Fuck Buddy. Don’t give a shit who sees you or what anybody thinks. Always maintain the theme that you can’t stay with her, but you sure do like her.

Say stuff like:

ME: You know, HB, in another time and place, I would fall right into you.

ME: I don’t know what it is about you. I have lots of girlfriends, but I just can’t keep my eyes off you. I know I can’t give you what you want and deserve. All I know is that I feel better when you are around.

Dramatic? Hell, yeah. Effective? Unbelievably so.

The result? A woman who adores you but knows she can’t have you. Whenever there is bad feelings with a woman you break up with (or One Night Stand with), it is because they thought they were going to be getting MORE THAN THEY ACTUALLY GOT. Most guys lie to a girl about how she is the “one” or whatever just to get in her pants. A lot of One Night Stand end up with the guy ditching her the next day (because she was such an easy slut) and then laughing with his buddies about it.

Women will only have bad feelings about your time together if they feel cheated somehow. But they will never say a bad word about you if you tell them straight out what you are all about. Of course, they will think that they are the one who can change you and tame you.

Instant social proof. Or Fuck Buddy. Or Multiple Long Term Relationships . At this point, it is your choice

Zan Perrion


Zan Perrion
Zan Perrion

Zan Perrion is an internationally acclaimed writer and professional speaker with a wonderful ability to inform and inspire audiences toward excellence in all aspects of life. Zan’s early writings and concepts have heavily influenced today’s international “seduction community”. Frequently featured as a guest and presenter in many parts of the world, he has never varied from his concept of a more “natural” approach to women, dating, and life.

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