I have a well-known seduction and personal development coach on my Facebook. The other day, I saw that he posted a question to his clients:

“You are speaking to a woman and she asks you ‘Are you trying to pick me up?’, your best answer is?”

The question itself seemed odd. Can there really be a ‘best’ answer? Still, I was intrigued and decided to visit the comments section to see if the community had in any way evolved in the past 3 years.

To my horror, it hadn’t.

The comment section was filled with your run of the mill nonsense throw away lines like “I’m just a really outgoing person” or “Bro, just change the subject”-type nonsense. I was utterly shocked that not a single person stepped up to the plate and said “My best answer is ‘Yes. Yes I am. You are absolutely stunning and I would love to taste you.” Don’t even get me started on what that ‘coach’ revealed to be his best answer…

NC_pierce_brosnan_james_bond_jef_131212_4x3_992Picture the great men of history. Picture the Alexander the Greats, the Julius Ceasars, the Casanovas, the Don Juans and the James Bonds. Picture the men you admire. The men you read about. The kind of men that are remembered… Now, what sort of response do you think they would speak? Do you think they would flinch, and hide their desires? Do you think they would need time to think of their ‘best’ answer? Or would they face that beautiful woman with the same mischievous passion for life that has driven them since the day they were born?

“But I am not those men”

Not yet you aren’t. But can you one day be? Hell yes. I don’t believe for one second that you were born to be mediocre. Every last one of us was born to be great, without exception. The only thing that separates you from those great men are the barriers you’ve built yourself.

Know your end goal

What on earth are you doing here? If you want to learn lines and tricks and techniques, stop reading. I did not write this for you. Just bear in mind that at one point, lines and techniques will run out. Remember that if you use techniques and lines to get a girl, you will not be able to keep her. Worst of all, though, remember that you use those lines and techniques to cover up your issues without actually addressing them.

Tom-Hardy-Warrior-tom-hardy-29606362-828-960“If you feel uncomfortable with your attraction to women, you are probably uncomfortable with your own masculine essence. If you feel it is demeaning for a woman to be the object of your polar attraction, then you have disowned your masculine core. You have energetically emasculated yourself by condemning and suppressing your native desires. You are negating your sexual essence rather than being at home with it.” – David Deida

When on earth did it become a crime for a man to stand firmly and proclaim who he is with pride? I am a man who loves women. I will not be cowed, I will not be shamed for it and I will not hide who I am to make small men feel comfortable. I accept the stares thrown my way. I accept the high-school style cacophony of whispers from lesser men and immature women. They will hate you and they won’t know why. That is because they respect you. A man who knows who he is and knows what he wants is masculinity at its finest. Wanna be confident? Know who you are and know what you want.

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Patrick Ananda
Patrick Ananda

Patrick is a scoundrel, rogue, vagabond and founder of the Centered Man Project. He teaches men how to overcome their social anxiety and fear of rejection, by unleashing their unshakable self-confidence.

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