I don’t use canned openers perse. I have tried some of them from the maunal -Elvis and whatever, but don’t feel like it is natural for me.

I use compliments as an opener a lot. Thing is, women can smell if a compliment is coming from a guy who is looking for her approval or a guy who is confident that he can pick her up.

I’ve had lots of success recently with compliments. And my targets are all 9snand up. In fact, the more experience you get and the more confidence you get, it doesn’t really matter what you say.
A lot of times I just go up and don’t say anything. Just walk up, stand real close, and smile at her.

Let her say something first.

Examples from this weekend (note – the line about two boyfriends was from someone on this new group recently. Can’t remember who, but thank you – it is gold):

Girl one:

Me: Don’t worry. I’ll give you a ride home.

Her: Well, my AFC friend is going to give me a ride.

Me: Is he a nice guy?

Her: Oh yeah. He’s good friends with my boyfriend.

Me: Are you in love with your boyfriend?

Her: Of course. He is very special.

Me: Well, you look like the kind of girl who could use two boyfriends.

Her: Two boyfriends? I don’t think so.

Me: Sure. One boyfriend for movies and popcorn and cuddling and stuff. And the
other one to drink champagne from your belly button.

Her: Uh…

Girl two:

Her: (laughing) Excuse me, is your name Zan?

Me: Yes

Her: I’ve heard about you. You know my friend. She says you tried to pick her up.

Me: (smiling) I can’t remember. Was I successful?

Her: (smiling) No. She saw right through your little games.

Me: Hmmm, is that a fact. Well, I was really trying to use her to get to you.

Her: (laughing) Not a chance! I don’t date guys shorter than me. [Note: I am
5’9″. She is taller] And your moves would never work on me.

Me: (wink) No? I think my moves would work on someone like you extremely well.
Truth is, I haven’t even tried with you – yet.

Her: (laughing) Nope! Wouldn’t work on me. What makes you think you could get
me?

Me: I know what I like and I’m used to winning.

Her: Ok, try it. Say something to try to seduce me.

Me: Did you approach me just now to talk to me?

Her: Uh, yes…

Me: Then I’ve already seduced you…

That one was too easy. She just left my house 3 hours ago.


Zan Perrion
Zan Perrion

Zan Perrion is an internationally acclaimed writer and professional speaker with a wonderful ability to inform and inspire audiences toward excellence in all aspects of life. Zan’s early writings and concepts have heavily influenced today’s international “seduction community”. Frequently featured as a guest and presenter in many parts of the world, he has never varied from his concept of a more “natural” approach to women, dating, and life.

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