Who else hate flakes?

GOD I couldn’t stand it!!

You get the courage to walk up to a stunning girl at the Whole Foods…

She’s got sexy yoga pants and a loose crop-top dancing above her incredible chest…

You figure ‘eh, fuck it… Let’s see what happens…’

To your surprise she actually seems to be enjoying the conversation!

Wow – she’s attractive but also pretty damn cool!

Within a few minutes, as if by magic, your cell phone appears in her hands…

You look in complete awe as she types in her phone number excitedly…

“Great! I’ll text you some time this week”

“I hope so!” She says with a mischievous smile as she walks away.

You try to withhold your excitement and wait the proverbial two days, and then you text her.

But what’s this?

You wait…

And wait…

And wait…

But no answer.

The hell? What gives??

Cut Your Flake Rate In Half – By Doing THIS

In order to dramatically cut your flake rate, there is actually just ONE simple thing you need to be doing.

Are you ready for it?
Spend time.

Now now, settle down.

I know you’re thinking it can’t be that simple.

Yes, there are a whole lot of factors that influence whether or not someone will take time out of her day to see you again…

But I can assure you that simply spending more time with her will handle those accidentally!

For example; in order for her to be excited about you, you both need to share common interests.

So instead of saying “I’ll text you sometime”, a set date like “Let’s try out that new cat Cafe downtown on Thursday at 8 – since we’re both allergic to cats” is way, way better.

But how would you ever find out something so intimate in the first place? By spending more time together right then and there.

How do you get her to view you not as some stranger on the street but as someone she is comfortable with?

(Fun fact: Surveys show that the biggest hangup women have about seeing someone again is safety. Yep, they’re actually worried you might straight up murder them!)

You guessed it… by spending time with them.

What do most guys do? Show up in a blaze of glory, giggle a bit, demand a phone number, then walk away triumphantly – which amounts to a full 30 seconds of her day! And you wonder why she doesn’t text back?

I used to make that mistake all the time. I’d gather like 10 phone numbers back to back and get all excited… And then be terribly disappointed when none texted back!

Better to spend a solid 10 minutes with one girl than one minute with 10 different girls.

I guess my message really is to slow everything down!

To stop making meeting new people into a big deal, and make it some weird video game where nothing is real anymore.

But to instead start enjoying the other person – to create real, lasting connections. To be curious, attentive and interested (instead of trying to be interesting). It’s not about meeting someBODY but about meeting someONE.

When you learn to take time, to be real and to connect with her, watch your flake rate drop dramatically. Striking up a conversation with a beautiful woman will become such a normal part of your life, and you will find yourself comfortable and at ease talking to just about anyone, anywhere!

Go out and try this today!

I can’t wait to hear how it goes for you!

Your fan,
Pat Ananda

Patrick Ananda
Patrick Ananda

Patrick is a scoundrel, rogue, vagabond and founder of the Centered Man Project. He teaches men how to overcome their social anxiety and fear of rejection, by unleashing their unshakable self-confidence.

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