Decide what you want and then run towards it at blinding speed. Nothing gets in your way. You want to be successful? GO AND DO IT. You want to be great with women? GO OUT AND SURROUND YOURSELF WITH THEM. You want a girlfriend? Go find the one that stands out from the crowd. Dont lie to her, tell her she is the cutest thing ever, tell her you want her to be your girlfriend. Yours and no one else’s. Celebrate her and make her feel unique.
You don't want a girlfriend? You want to just fool around with her? Look her deep in the eye and tell her you want her, you want to do dirty, horrible things to her. You might not be there in the morning, but if she’s willing to take the risk, she should take your hand and go on the greatest adventure of her life.