It’s always good to know what your options are …

MT Brain:

Bit of a recap to start …I’ve been doing well lately, seeing one girl (HBColombian) at the moment. I first had sex with her 10 days ago, with our relationship not 100% clearly defined. Later, I met her again and explained more clearly that I’m looking for open relationships. We haven’t slept with each other since, but only because the opportunity hasn’t arisen. We met again yesterday and had a great evening: make outs and as much touching as was possible in public.

I can now get attraction effortlessly. Opened a girl in the supermarket the other day:

Me (noticing lots of blueberries in her basket): So, you’re baking a big blueberry cake ?

Her: Haha, no, I’m having friends over and I will serve them with crackers … (shows me more contents of her basket).

I ask her about the green onions she’s buying, then we chat some more about baking. She’s good at baking. I don’t know how to do it.

Me: I guess I just need a good mentor.

Her: Absolutely !

At this point, she was ready to take. I could have followed up with “You should teach me !” but I didn’t actually want her, so I said:

Me: Well, my roomie is really good at it. Guess I should watch his cooking some day.

Some more banter, then break. She reopens me soon after. As she pays for her stuff, she drops one packet of blueberries and they spill all over the floor. I offer my help, but can’t realistically do much. Anyhow, nice girl, she told me her age and all kinds of stuff. For me, it was great to get the attention, but I didn’t really want her (now I know how many hot chicks feel).

Tonight

Volunteered as a bartender at a show at the theater. Talked to one girl I’d met before, opened another new one. Got the first one’s e-mail and the second one’s number. HBSecond is into all dream / mind-related movies, so obviously we talked about Christopher Nolan’s Inception. Shortly before I leave the theater, a friend calls me and we agree to go see it tomorrow. So as I leave, I tell her:

Me: Guess what I’m seeing tomorrow !

Her: What ?

Me: Inception !

Her: Haha awesome ! Funny, how things sometimes fit together.

I ask her if she knows The Dark Knight. She doesn’t, so I say I have the DVDs, and that I should lend them to her.

Her (laughs): That’s so nice ! We barely know each other, and you’re offering me to lend me DVDs ?

I realize that I’m about to slip into “nice guy” territory, so I quickly salvage the situation. Me: Well I think you’re nice, so why not ? But actually, it’s just so I can get your number. Gimme your number. (handing her my phone).

She laughs again and goes, “Of course !” then punches her number in my phone. Some more banter, then I hit the road to HBBurlesque’s housewarming party. After I leave, I text her:

“Doesn’t know The Dark Knight… Jeez. *shakes heard*”

No answer (so far).

HBBurlesque’s Housewarming

At HBBurlesque’s party, I get my usual huge dose of kino from HBStripwinner all evening. I love this girl. We kino each other increasingly as the night progresses.

There’s a nice crowd of people, including the sister of HBBurlesque’s roomie, whom I’ve never met before. HBRoomiesis is a solid 8 in my book. Cutie. I introduce myself to her and then pay little to no attention to her, talking to everybody else (well, lots of people, you can’t go through all of them).

At a later point, HBStripwinner, HBBurlesque and I start a group hug and then move through the flat as a human blob, collecting people along the way. Group-touching is a normal part of the party now. This includes HBRoomiesis.

At a later point, I don’t exactly remember how, but it’s after a period of passing out from tiredness, I find myself standing with both HBStripwinner and HBRoomiesis in my arms, and HBBurlesque is with us. As I loosen the grip, HBRoomiesis grabs my biceps. She’s obviously enjoying the kino a lot, as much as HBStripwinner still is. I still haven’t talked much to HBRoomiesis, but I gradually found out that she’s just visiting her sis; she’ll be here for another week.

In another conversation a bit later, she tells me … out of the blue … about a German girl she had sex with on church steps.

Under the right circumstances, I could have taken this further, stimulating and escalating both girls. What fucked me over, I think, were:

1. Awful logistics. I’m on my bike and far from my place.

2. No way to isolate them.

3. I’m dead. My last two days have been overkill. I’ve hardly had time to breathe, let alone sleep, between work and events. I was ready to pass out any minute.

I gave my name to HBRoomiesis so she can add me on Facebook. Since I’m pulling night shifts all week, late on Sunday night (after 9) is the only time I could see her again. If she adds me, I’ll just send her a message saying it sucks I couldn’t stay and we couldn’t take that anywhere, as I think she’s hot … then invite her over for a movie and massage.


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