If someone were to tell you that you could use hypnosis as a tool to improve your dating life, you would most likely shy away at first, imagining that this involved some kind of plan to control the minds of women you find attractive using clandestine hypnosis techniques. And if you thought along those lines, you need to realize that you don’t understand one of the basic fundamentals of hypnosis.
The truth is that hypnosis only works when a subject wants it to work. It’s not some incredible tool that can be used to control anyone’s mind. And I’m here to teach you about how you can use hypnosis to bring about positive change in yourself to improve and enrich your dating life.
One way that hypnosis can help you improve your dating life is by helping you deal with whatever anxiety issues you might have with going out and meeting new people. The thing with anxiety is that it often has deep-seated roots in traumatic experiences from the past.
For example, if a man suffers from crippling approach anxiety and social anxiety, it could be due to an embarrassing experience from his past that has left lasting emotional scars. By using hypnotherapy, it’s possible to not only analyze and uncover whatever deep-rooted causes that exist for your anxiety issues, but it is also possible to eradicate these lingering issues.
Another way that hypnosis can help enrich your dating life is by improving your sense of self-worth and confidence. The reason why a lot of men don’t feel confident when approaching women and interacting with them is because they feel unsure and afraid of the possible outcomes of such interactions.
Hypnosis can help alleviate these feelings of insecurity and replace them with positive emotions. By using various hypnosis and self-hypnosis techniques, it is possible to rehearse the entire process of approaching women in a hypnotic state and instill triggers for positive emotions to be associated with the act.
Hypnosis and the techniques of affirmation used in hypnotherapy can also help your dating life by enabling you to instill the qualities that would make you a more attractive man. This too goes a long way in building confidence and a sense of self-worth.
When a person is in a normal conscious state, everything that he perceives and hears is analyzed, weighed and compared to previous experiences and beliefs. Only then is it either rejected or accepted. In such a state it can be difficult to instill positive beliefs and affirmations in your mind because your conscious mind analyzes these affirmations and rejects them because it doesn’t believe them to be entirely true.
Whereas when you are in a deep hypnotic state, you switch off your conscious mind and gain access directly to your subconscious. And when a thought or idea is introduced to your subconscious mind, it is accepted without being analyzed or weighed. So say, for example, you were to tell yourself that you are confident with women while you are in a normal conscious state. If your self-belief is that you are shy and socially awkward, the positive affirmation would be rejected because your mind cannot hold two contrasting view points at the same time.
Whereas if you were in a hypnotic state and the affirmation that you are confident with women were to be introduced to your subconscious mind, it would be accepted more readily. And when it is repeated a few times your mind will come to accept the fact that you are confident with women and your thoughts and behaviors will change to reflect this new self-belief.
Hypnosis can also help with a myriad of everyday self-improvements like quitting smoking or drinking and losing weight. This might not seem directly related to success in your dating life, but it’s really the subtle things that come together to make a big difference.
After all, being an attractive man is all about being your best possible self. These days there are a range of self-hypnotherapy programs available that can help you with everything from quitting an addiction to motivating yourself to work out.
The reason that I think that hypnosis is in some ways better than some dating system developed by a pickup guru is because sometimes these systems are the result of the specific life experiences of those gurus. They have been shaped by their creator’s perception of the world and interactions with women. Because of this they might not always be relative and applicable to every student. Whereas with hypnosis, it’s possible to tackle the core issues standing between you and a richer dating life in a more customized way.