Sex is a natural thing. In fact it’s the most normal thing ever. People always act like it’s such a big deal. I remember in high school, all the guys were planning ‘sex dates’ and would develop all kinds of intricate plans to get laid. Not much has changed, it seems. Once, at a conference I was speaking at, someone asked me how do I “trick her” into coming home with me. I replied that I am not a magician, nor am I a stage clown.
Go out on an adventure and be curious about everyone. Talk to everyone, give love and sincere compliments. Breathe in deep – it’s a luxury to be alive. Meet a woman, or two, or three. You’re being you; having fun, expressing yourself and discovering others. You connect with one of the women you’re talking to. She’s fun and flirty and there’s just a general good vibe between you two.
She laughs at your jokes and leaves her hand on your knee. You take her hand to tease her about how manly they are and all of a sudden you find your hands haven’t parted since. Before you know it you two are kissing. “Let’s go on an adventure,” and you’re walking around the bar arm in arm. Suddenly the bar isn’t big enough for your adventures…
You need the open air, the wilderness of stars above, so you leave together. You end up in your room sharing music. You lie down on the bed, the lights go out, the rest is history. No manipulation, no lying, and no regrets. Sex is just a natural conclusion of a great time. In the same way that violence is often an outlet for negative energy, sex is the expression of positive energy.
– Patrick Armen