This has been a constant question among men since the dawn of time.

Yes, while uncovering intricate murals of Egyptian hieroglyphs, after spending many long hours deciphering this ancient and unknown mode of communication, archaeologists confirm that at least 83% of said murals can be translated as; “What should I say, bro?”

Maybe I made that part up, but it’s not important. What I’m more concerned with is you!

Yes, you.

When was the last time you saw a beautiful woman and just went after what you wanted fearlessly?

Did you hesitate? Did you stop to think about what you need to say?
If you did, it’s fine! It’s fine because most men are like that. It’s called collective insanity, and there’s a cure.

I’m about to share with you the single greatest opener in the history of the universe… Only if you can handle it. If you don’t think you can, please avert your eyes for this next part.

Are you ready for it?

Okay here goes… The single… Greatest opener… In the history… Of the entire universe…


Whaaaat?! Did I blow your mind?

Okay hear me out. In order to really grow, you need to learn to see things as they are – not as you wish them to be. You need to take a step back and stop seeing life through your lens.

Your lens is usually determined by the sum of your past experiences, both your failures and successes, your hurts and your loves, your victories and defeats.

In other words, if at some point in your life you’ve had your heart broken, and then you’ve come to the ugly conclusion that you are not good enough, and if that is a foregone conclusion, then of your entire life you’ve spent your time finding evidence to validate that conclusion.

I speak from experience – whatever pains you’ve suffered, I’ve experienced worse, and I felt pretty insignificant for it.

I’m here to tell you that you don’t need to feel that way. In fact, you have every right to feel incredible, right now, for no reason. But I digress…

Let’s study this opener. I love seeing people react to this because you can always tell who has low self-esteem. “What?! Dude you’re crazy, you need a good reason to open a girl”. Uhm… no buddy, you don’t. You think an Alpha needs a reason? Don’t you want to be an Alpha?

This will be one of your greatest realizations along your journey – that you don’t need a reason.

YES! How insane is that?!

You do not need a reason to talk to a beautiful girl. You do not need a reason to flirt with her. You do not need a reason to invite her on a date, to invite her home, or to ask for her number.

More so, you do not owe anybody an explanation! That’s damn right! If you find a woman attractive, who’s to say you have no right to feel that way? You don’t owe anybody an explanation. I’ve never had anybody ask me why I came up to speak to them – never. That’s because people are social creatures. Talking to people is fun and exciting! Yay!

So get out there! If you feel you need an explanation, “I wanted to meet you” is more than enough.

“Hey, I’m ****” is usually all it takes to begin a passionate adventure.

Godspeed gentlemen.

Patrick Ananda

Patrick Ananda
Patrick Ananda

Patrick is a scoundrel, rogue, vagabond and founder of the Centered Man Project. He teaches men how to overcome their social anxiety and fear of rejection, by unleashing their unshakable self-confidence.

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