As far as I am concerned, there is only one way to truly do this. When you fully establish your frame women have two choices. They can accept and come into your frame, or they cannot accept it. It is literally this simple, gentlemen. Once they accept your frame, you do not have to make excuses. You don’t have to come up with a magic line to set up a booty call. When you have accomplished everything else in this book, you will have established such a relationship to where you shall be able to call your lady and simply say, “I’m horny – come over around 7 and bring dinner (I am also hungry)”.

Most men believe a booty call is about establishing your value to her and tricking her into thinking being a random Tuesday night isn’t with mal intentions. The reason why most men think this is because society tells us that random hookups are bad. Here’s the truth – a booty call isn’t about tricks…it’s about trust and comfort. Women are just as horny as men – and I promise you they would much rather have a regular man-piece to satisfy their sexual desires then have to keep sorting through the losers at the bar when they are horny or resort to their dildo.

When they know that they are safe with you, and they can trust you, and that what you have is chemistry and a love for each other that won’t spill into both of your daily routines – then you have a gentlemen’s booty call. A seducer loves all of his women and understands they have their own lives to lead. When they come into your home, you enjoy the time you have together and you love them for everything that makes them special to you. You treat them right, you cook them breakfast…you laugh and play jokes as best friends. When it’s time for them to go – you let your infatuation stop there and focus back on your life.

As long as your frame is strong enough – you can literally do anything, set any rules, and establish
any boundaries. Remember, this is your life she’s coming into. When she chooses to do so, you
treat her like she deserves to be treated – but first she has to accept your frame.

To test this out, I had a friend last year experiment with a few different concepts. The biggest was when he posted a list of house rules in his home by the front door. When he pulled from a bar, a woman had to sign onto this list of rules before she was allowed to take her jacket off. These rules were purely his, and it worked. Rules such as “You must be gone before I wake up,” or “You have to leave an article of clothing here (he had a collection of bras hanging on his wall).”

A few years back, I developed my “Shelf System” to experiment with this as well. I took a closet and put six shelves in it, one above the other. I decided I did not want to maintain more than six girlfriends at the same time. Each girl got a shelf…but the higher the shelf, the higher a priority they were to me. If they wanted to keep personal items at my place, they had to leave it on their shelf – that’s all the storage room they had.

They all had chores, one girl would do my laundry, and one girl would go grocery shopping. Whenever a girl decided to get jealous, or moody, or use another girl’s shampoo for example, her shelf status would get downgraded. It was like how Hugh Hefner has his main girlfriend and the others have their hierarchy. I was posing a challenge, and I created a system that punished poor attitude or behavior.

Let me set the record straight…

I don’t suggest you adopt what I did, or what my friend did as your personal mission. They were EXTREME circumstances simply to try and see how strong of a frame we could establish. What we got out of these experiments was simple: as long as you establish what it is that you want, hold firm, allow her to come into your reality, and cherish her for it – you can pretty much do anything. Here’s the bottom line – there is no special way to set up a booty call. There is no magic line to tell you. You have to determine what you want out of relationships. Is all you want booty calls? Then ask yourself a few more questions like, how often? Once you establish your expectations, then a woman can choose to follow or not follow. Everything else follows without stress, without lying, and
without effort.


Ashley
Ashley

Ashley is the Modern Gentleman. He never takes advantage of a woman, instead shows her the path of love and enlightenment.  He is constantly growing spiritually, mentally, and physically.  He is open to learning lessons the universe provides around him, i.e. a 4 year old boys amazement of a snow storm or a beautiful flower, or the wisdom of an 80 year old man. Ashley protects others status socially by handling awkward social situations with confidence and class.  He is punctual, and takes care of his appearance.

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