That is what was said to me last night. “I like you but I’m afraid you won’t respect me in the morning”.

I have never understood this. Are there really guys that don’t respect girls that sleep with them the very same night they meet them? I have never thought this about a woman, ever.

I subscribe to the notion that she literally just didn’t have a chance. It was beyond her control. How could her AFC designed Anti-Slut Defense possibly withstand the rarely seen art of true seduction?

It was not really possible for her to say no (and not in a Mike Tyson kind of way). She was simply tranced and spellbound – overwhelmed. How the fuck can anyone ever call her an easy slut when
this happens?

In fact, whenever a girl sleeps with me the first time – whether the first time we meet or not – I always call her immediately the next day, ask her how she is, thank her for the exquisite time, maybe hook up again next week, let her down firmly but gently, guard her feelings a little, etc.

I have no idea if this is what the manual says to do or not (I am slowly reading through it, and I guess I haven’t got to that part yet). But that is what I do right now.

Because of all the AFCs out there who somehow manage to beat the odds and score with a girl, I have to spend half my time trying to soften her ASD.


BTW, the number one thing you can do to negate this phrase IME is to convince her that you absolutely do not kiss and tell – ever. If you can get her to truly believe this, you are almost always guaranteed the lay.

In my case, this is true. Some guys lie to their buddies about the girl they bent over last night (when all they really got was a dry goodnight kiss). I always lie the other way. If I am asked by a friend what happened with the HB he saw me with last night, I just say she’s a nice girl but we didn’t really do anything.

My theory is that other guys have no business knowing what she and I did, but girls talk and she will
tell her friends and word will spread amongst the girls that she got together with me (which is good).

Zan Perrion
Zan Perrion

Zan Perrion is an internationally acclaimed writer and professional speaker with a wonderful ability to inform and inspire audiences toward excellence in all aspects of life. Zan’s early writings and concepts have heavily influenced today’s international “seduction community”. Frequently featured as a guest and presenter in many parts of the world, he has never varied from his concept of a more “natural” approach to women, dating, and life.

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